I’m a happily married woman who enjoys the simple things in life. I’ve been married to my husband for 3 years, but we dated for 6. Our relationship has been amazing throughout those years, but recently things have changed some. My husband has become this controlling “freak”. It all started out when he attended a groomsmen party at a strip club. I don’t know what they did to my husband, but since then he has become extremely out of hand. He spent $300 dollars on costumes & toys thinking I was going to engage in his madness. This makes me feel as if I’m not doing something right in bed cause he felt the need to go over the line with that. I spoke with him numerous times about this and he feels like he is sparking up the intercourse. A couple of nights ago while being at work for a 16 hr shift I came home to a man dressed in thongs & had whips and chains around his waist. I couldn’t help but to laugh at first, but then suddenly I became upset. I told him he has reached the top of the line and is taking it too far. He insists that he is just wanting to have a little fun. While cooking dinner he will make shapes out of food of private parts and I find it extremely disrespectful of him. It’s getting to the point where he is sending X rated pics of himself to my phone while I’m at work. Once again, I spoke with him about this crap and he continues to think it’s cute. Last night as I was sitting at my desk researching some stuff for work, he called me to the room claiming he needed help with something. As I walked in I find a naked man with a Jerry curl wig. I couldn’t help but to cry! This is not only getting me upset, but it’s also getting the best of me cause it’s stressing me out to the point where all I do is cry now. He is ruining our relationship and I’m afraid I’m going to walk out on him if he keeps this childish behavior up.
Steve & Shirley, PLEASE help me with this husband of mine
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